Chris Mills http://www.chrismills.uk.com Just another WordPress weblog Tue, 04 May 2010 19:06:41 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 en hourly 1 What is a family consultant? http://www.chrismills.uk.com/2010/05/04/what-is-a-family-consultant/ http://www.chrismills.uk.com/2010/05/04/what-is-a-family-consultant/#comments Tue, 04 May 2010 19:06:41 +0000 chris http://www.chrismills.uk.com/cms/?p=85 If the title doesn’t seem familiar, it’s because it’s very new – 2009 vintage in fact!  A family consultant is a professional with a background in clinical psychology or psychotherapy who works alongside lawyers to help divorcing clients reach the most advantageous and healthy settlement solutions for themselves and their children.  This new interdisciplinary approach is called Collaborative Divorce.  The aim is to keep divorces out of court, so that key decisions for a family facing divorce are made by that family – with as much support as they need – rather than by a judge on their behalf.  The reason why family consultants have such a vital role to play is that divorce is primarily a psychological event, and often a very distressing and disturbing one.  We have the understanding and therapeutic skills to help guide clients through what can be an emotional minefield.  We can also provide guidance on childcare through this critical transition, and if necessary bring in colleagues who can meet directly with children who are clearly struggling.  This psychological approach is especially important at a time when so many long-term legal, practical and financial decisions are also having to be made.  Lawyers are in a much better position to help you do this if the difficult feelings you’re having are being supported in a different setting outside the lawyer’s office.

Collaborative Divorce reflects a radical shift in the way divorces are dealt with and thought about, from every angle – legal, emotional, moral, practical and spiritual.  If you’re facing the possible end of your marriage, I or any of my collaborative colleagues would be happy to meet you for an informal chat, to answer your questions and to tell you more.  You can leave a confidential message for me at any time on 01225 445237, or email me at cm@chrismills.uk.com

I’ll get straight back to you.

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